You may or may not have heard the term before but without knowing the depts of its meaning.
A malignant narcissist is a person who has a grandiose sense of self. They are arguably the worst type of narcissists out there. A person with this disorder has both narcissistic trait and anti-social traits. However, they generally have lower empathy than the regular narcissistic. This personality is almost as dangerous as psychopathy. However, unlike psychopaths, they may have some sense of guilt and remorse. However, unlike psychopaths they have a desire for emotional connection, but may feel they have nothing good to offer, thus they discard their desire and start seeking admiration instead (FRANK YEOMANS).
They fit into the dark triad personality, having a charming, and magnetic personality.
They are more exploitative, manipulative, cohesive, sadistic, deceitful, and controlling (Rami).
They crave power, control, and pleasure. Choosing themselves over other people and tend to have a higher body count, (if sexually active). They have higher chances of falling into addiction. While having high aggression, which could be physical or emotional.
They may also have some levels of paranoia. Making lots of accusations, and assumptions. They may feel like people are out to get them. They could rage at people who they feel may be out to get them, which could be a form of projection.
When they are first getting to know you, they tend to be more attentive on you. They like to learn your vulnerability and what ticks you. They then use this information to control you, through the emotions of fear, hope, or early childhood experiences of narcissistic abuse. Once, they are done using you, they will leave you. They only care about what works for them. The same applies to their apologies, which they only do if they benefit from it themselves.
Well folks, there you have it. That is the introduction to what a malignant narcissist is. I hope you enjoyed the post and enjoy the rest of your day! Remember, you are amazing, and always keep trying. Believe in yourself and never give up. ❤
References:
FRANK YEOMANS. “The Malignant Narcissist’s Internal World — FRANK YEOMANS.” BorderlinerNotes, 21 Aug. 2020, www.youtube.com/watch?v=-AeWDcJaENc. Accessed 1 Jan. 2024.
Rami, Dr. “How to Keep an Eye out for Malignant Narcissists.” Youtube, 2 Apr. 2023, www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xO8CpHiLy8. Accessed 1 Jan. 2024.
Scott, Elizabeth. “How to Identify a Malignant Narcissist.” Verywellmind, Dotdash Meredith , 6 Dec. 2023, www.verywellmind.com/how-to-recognize-a-malignant-narcissist-4164528#:~:text=Malignant%20narcissists%20lack%20empathy,%20demand,cannot%20truly%20love%20other%20people. Accessed 1 Jan. 2024.
